Here's the KT post: http://wifebehindthefire.com/quality-time/
Simply put, I learned a long time ago to value quality over quantity. Give me an hour of intimate, quality, one on one time, over 8 hours of simply coexisting ANY DAY. When all you get is a quick kiss hi or bye sometimes, you gotta make it count! I've discovered that if I don't purposefully make sure to involve him in whatever I'm up to that day, it is really easy to just coexist. We are both use to the other one not being home much. It can be really hard to ignore the world and snuggle for a bit. But, IT IS SO WORTH IT! Without quality, the time isn't real valuable a lot of the time.